Finding some sort of anonymous way to pay would be a big help I think. It takes away the fear of the person you're buying from having your real name and other details on file. I'm a reasonably trusting person, probably too trusting in some ways (have been burned before on that front), but even I wou...

First time poster, long time lurker. Been reading this thread with interest, and it's made me realise just how cautious people have to be these days. Because of all the secrecy and furtiveness that surrounds porn and fetishes and so on the customer is in a very vulnerable position. One of the things...